How Do You Like Your Eggs 19092015

Poached egg or fried egg? It's entirely up to you how you live your life, what you attract into your life and how you eat your eggs....

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My Crazy Theory

I have this crazy theory while I was in Acropolis looking at those architectural masterpieces of the golden age. What if our entire life is a lie? What if it's a conspiracy theory? Our time isn't even the actual modern time. What if there was some civilization way back in time that was way advanced than us now? What if that whole civilization was suddenly wiped out like Pompeii?

My Crazy Theory

I have this crazy theory while I was in Acropolis looking at those architectural masterpieces of the golden age. What if our entire life is a lie? What if it's a conspiracy theory? Our time isn't even the actual modern time. What if there was some civilization way back in time that was way advanced than us now? What if that whole civilization was suddenly wiped out like Pompeii?

My Best Friend's Wedding

25th February 2012 was an eventful day for me. It was my first and only time as the maid of honour just for my best friend of 20 over years, Danielle. Both of us have been going all over the town for the preparations. Being the maid of honour and doing some miscellaneous jobs was already so tiring for me. I can't really imagine how tiring it is for the bride herself. Getting married sure involved lots and lots of hard work.

If I have to do all those things for my own wedding, I'd better not get married. Being the perfectionist I am, I know I'll go berserk over some itsy-bitsy stuff if some things go out of my plan. There'll be endless rows with the husband-to-be and plenty of frustration. I understand my own temperament very well.

Danielle is pretty much a better person than I am. Too many times that she had to cool me down for being frustrated over some small matter. Shouldn't it be the other way round? She's been telling me that one will learn how to let things be and go with the flow during the preparation, a changed person after the whole thing. I don't know if I can ever learn that though. My dear friend had matured while I'm still stuck in this rut with my stubbornness. The very same stubbornness that I've survived upon and in my pursue for perfection. Whether it's a good thing or not, there's no way to tell.

I would never imagine someone would really trust me so much to allow me to be involved in so many aspect of her big day. What I've done to gain that? I can't even trust my own self, what's more to trust someone else like that? Every possible scenarios that had gone through my mind, possibilities that I might not be able to complete all those tasks and ruin my bestie's wedding. Me being knocked down by a car, fell off the staircase or even got locked inside my office;being a paranoid that I am, stressed. I bet no one can imagine that I was so nervous that day that I was trembling the entire time until the dinner was over.

The dress that I've searched high and low for. Every other dresses that I've tried on seemed to feel odd on me, I can't fit into everything else except for this one. It camouflaged almost all of the imperfections.

Basic necessities....
Thank God that everything went well and thank you very much to my dear friend for your trust in me. This is the very thing that I would really want to learn from you, to be able to trust. Like what I've told you the other day, I've been thinking a lot and there's things that I would really like to change in my life.

(Nude for day ceremony and black for the dinner. I know I should wear a lady-like high heel to go with the pastel purple dress not this nude shoe. I just love to go against the rules and the conventional way, just the way I am. )

Once again, thank you very much for trusting me and to allowed to help with your wedding. Things I did might be an insignificant matter to everyone else but I don't give a shit of what others had in mind for I did them only for my best friend, Danielle.

I've learned something new and this event could just be the turning point of my life.

Who's My Friends?

I have 1123 friends on Facebook and the numbers are dwindling now as I'm deleting some of them. Not many of them are my real friends, people whom I really care about. Just some online games friends.

Then something strange just happened. There are a lot of real people that's been inviting me to their weddings. Notice that I said people here, not friends. Funny eh? Hey! I didn't know that I have that many friends until now.

I thought friends are supposed to be people who really put in the effort to maintain their friendship and whose genuinely cared for each other. Who always keep in touch and meet up once in a while. What about whom you never even say "HI" to in so many years?

I'm scratching my head now trying to figure out who are actually my friends.

Deja Vu

Everything I see and heard seems to have a hidden message. One of my reader telling me that by giving others a chance means giving myself a chance too. The damn TV series too...

These few years I've always been able to keep my emotions in rein. I always know what I want in life. Did I got overwhelmed by my bestie's wedding day or something? Been receiving different messages with the same meaning lately.

Is a greater force in this universe trying to tell me something? Telling me that I've been wrong about my standing all this while?

Do I really know you?

Let me summarize something from a typical chinese wedding here:

Guests have to pay some kind of entrance fees before they start on their 10 course chinese meal.The amount that you paid will be recorded.Somehow if the amount is below the market rate,you'll be labelled as stingy.

Some couple use this opportunity to make some money from their wedding.They'll start inviting some well to do people hoping for a bigger amount of monetary gift.Suddenly,they are so close to everybody.I called it 'mass invitations'.Most of those victims will never attend to the wedding but they still have to part with their money out of being polite.

Some will mark up the price of the 10 course meal hoping that you'll pay more.How pathetic is that?

The original intention of a wedding is a celebration with friends and family for the reunion of a couple but its been tarnished now with dirty schemes and greed.

June says you pathetic people should get married and divorced every few months in order to break even of the cost.Make a full time job out of it if you can.

P/S: PLEASE DON'T INVITE ME IF WE ARE NOT REALLY FRIENDS.I HAVE NO REASON TO CELEBRATE WITH YOU.

I won't apologize if you feel offended by my words.You feel offended because you really did what I mentioned here.

Thank you