Love,Chance or Choice?

When we meet the right person to love
when we're at the right place at the right time,
that's chance.

When you meet someone you're attracted
to, that's not a choice. That's chance.

Being caught up in a moment (and
there's a lot of couples who get together because of
this)
is not a choice. That's also a chance.


The difference is what happens
afterwards. When will you take that infatuation, that
crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level?
That's when all sanity goes back, you
sit down and contemplate whether you want to make
this into a concrete relationship or just a fling.
If you decide to love a person, even with his or her faults,
that's not a chance. That's choice.

When you choose to be with a person, no matter
what, that's choice. Even if you know
there are many people out there who are more
attractive,smarter and richer than your mate, and
yet, you decide to love your mate just the same,
that's choice.


Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes
to us by chance. But true love that lasts is
truly a choice. A choice that we make.
Regarding soul mates, there's a
beautiful movie quote that I believe is
so true about this: " Fate brings you
together, but it's still up to you to make it
happen."
I do believe that soul mates do exist.
That there is truly someone made for you. But it's
still up to you to make the choice if you're going to
do something about it or not. We may meet our soul
mates by chance, but loving and staying with our
soul mates is still a choice we have to make.